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Our Intro
by HeClimbsHigh and ClimbChic
To be Switch. What is it? How is it really possible? Why would someone enjoy this lifestyle? What are the pros and cons? Honest questions. Over time we hope to answer these questions for you and many others you may have.

So, who are we? Well I’m Heclimbshigh. I’m a 36 year old male currently residing in Kentucky. I maintain a job that requires me to be very dominant even in the presence of my superiors. I’m a no BS kinda guy that will not accept any BS from anyone. I have a dominant personality in all of my public everyday life as well. It has made me successful, somewhat popular among my peers and subordinates, but often times not very popular among my superiors. Once home however, I like to let go. I like to be on an equal level with my partner with all things pertaining to home life and our personal interaction. I like to share the decision-making and the daily chores of running a home.

My journey began years ago. I’ve had thoughts about BDSM since puberty. I tried to play a bit in my first marriage in my early 20’s. She was straight vanilla, and wasn’t having it. I Tried again in my second marriage at age 30 with pretty much the same outcome. I was living in Europe at the end of the second one. I knew myself fairly well at that point and decided it was really time to explore my feelings and desires. Europe was a great place to begin this exploration. The Europeans are typically very open about sex and sexuality and offer a great number of facilities and facilitators for exploration into ones fantasy world.

I’m Climbchic. A 41 year old female resident of Kentucky and I’m very new to the world of BDSM. I have spent the last 16 years of my life with one man, in a vanilla relationship that was at best uninspiring. I have recently met a man that has introduced me to the world of BDSM. I must tell you that I am very intrigued! We are starting to play and he is very respectfully moving slowly at my request. He has asked me about my fantasies, what some of my expectations are, and of course what do I think I would prefer, being a Dom or a sub.

In the real world, I am dominant in my career. I am the alpha personality, nicknamed the hammer, because I am rather aggressive and tend to get the job done. Yet in my romantic relationships, I tend to be more passive and prefer to let my mate lead! Looking at other areas of my life, I do not see any dominance or submissiveness being particularly noticeable!

I believe that I am a switch! I fantasize about being the strong warrior queen that enslaves her captured victim creating a pleasure slave! I also dream of being the kidnapped maiden that is ravished by her blue eyed captor and forced to endure unspeakable pleasures! At my core, I enjoy giving pleasure as much as I enjoy experiencing it and I am a hopeless romantic in the world of fantasy.

As a novice in this wonderful new world I have few expectations. I am looking forward to some great new leather and lace, and of course some all black rabbit lined restraints! I know that there is much for me to learn and many walls that must be scaled. For me, it is an issue of trust and creative exploration into the world of pleasure!

Well that’s our intro. We look forward to sharing our experiences, research, ideas, thoughts, and answers to questions, with you. So please write in if you have a specific question, idea you wish to share, topic you wish to know more about, or suggestions for improving the Switch’s Corner.
Until next time, keep reaching for the edge!